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I'm married to a saint of a man. I have two sons who aren't, but I love them anyway. And I'm no saint either. I am messy, tend to keep things much longer than necessary, love dogs and can't watch Disney movies with animals in them. I still cry at Puff the Magic Dragon. I love books because I can get lost in someone else's world and forget my own. Mine's not so bad, but who doesn't want to escape every once in a while. I just want to escape a little more often than most others I know, so I'm here to find my own kind. Book lovers! I have a degree in English Literature from the University of Florida and read and write every chance I get.

Monday, May 23, 2011

Bryan Cohen Post and Giveaway



Today I have Motivational Author Bryan Cohen landing on my blog from his whirlwind tour around the blogosphere. He's got some interesting information on money, something we could all use more of and I plan to read more. Please make sure to comment to enter his giveaway. Thanks for stopping by!


How to Become a Winner

By Bryan Cohen


There are no classes in high school or college called “How to Become aWinner,” but I think there should be. A class that focused on dumping the habits and traits of an unsuccessful person and building up those of an industry leader would have been helpful for me growing up. Mistakes wouldn’t have burdened me as much and perhaps I would have taken an optimistic Edison approach as he did with his “10,000 ways not to make a light bulb.” I would have cherished my time and money more. I may have even started writing and self-publishing much earlier. But let’s not focus on the past; let’s see how we can be successful now and in the future.


Winners use their time wisely throughout the day, even if it’s for rest. They set impossible goals and act as fools who rush in to tackle problems.Successful people start now and don’t wait until the moment is perfect (hint:there is no such thing). Winners provide people with a service and if that service is good, they tell people about it. The best of the best come with a forward-thinking comprehensive plan and they’re willing to change it if opportunities present themselves in a different direction.


The wealthiest people in the world don’t have one job with one source of income, in fact, they may have hundreds or thousands of sources of income. According to research in The Millionaire Next Door, many millionaires and decamillionaires shop at bulk discount stores, buy used cars, and live well below their means. Wealthy successful people give back to their community through foundations and some even give anonymously. Successful moneymakers think only of abundance and have done so even before they were well off.


Winners are kind and encouraging to their loved ones without expecting anything in return. Successful people realize that without the help of others they wouldn’t be where they are and as a result they always listen empathically and look for win-win situations. They try to embody integrity and avoid losing contacts through shady dealings.


Maybe it’s better that I didn’t learn these things until later in life. In losing years to being unfocused and timid, I learned the value of time and the appropriate application of energy. By falling far into debt in my youth, I had to dig deep to come up with the most effective method to create income for myself just to stay afloat. After losing friends to unreliability and a partial absence of integrity, I found the value of those who stuck around for the long haul and how they should be treated.


Some people go their entire lives without learning these principles of success while others simply ignore them. If you feel like you aren’t living up to your potential, seek out the stories of successful people. Biographies and autobiographies of Andrew Carnegie, Warren Buffett, Michael Dell, Felix Dennis, and Sam Walton are just a few out there that inspire like mad with tales of triumph. Their concepts are woven into my books, which are meant to turn readers into successful writers and complete people. Try out both my books and theirs to see how their inspiration led to my writing success.

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Bryan Cohen is giving away 100 personalized writing prompts to one giveaway entrant chosen at random during the blog tour. Personalized prompts are story starters that cater specifically to a writer’s subject matter, strengths/weaknesses, etc. Cohen will create the prompts to cater exclusively to the winner. He is giving away free digital copies of his book The Writing Sampler to everybody who enters, which includes excerpts from each of his four books on writing.The book contains essays, writing prompts and tips and tricks to enhance your writing skills. In addition, for each of Cohen’s books that reach the Top 500on Amazon during his blog tour, he will add a $50 Amazon gift card to the drawing (up to six $50 cards in total)!

To enter, simply post a comment to this blog post with your e-mail address. Entries will be counted through June 2nd, 2011.

Thanks Bryan for visiting and sharing your successes and failures with us.  I'm sure we can learn a lot from you!
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Heather in Sandwich

9 comments:

  1. Dear Heather,

    Thanks so much for letting me post! I know there were some issues with links so here is my bio with links to my books, etc. Hope to see some of you folks enter today :).

    Bryan Cohen is a writer, actor and comedian from Dresher, Pennsylvania. Since graduating from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill he has written four books (1,000 Creative Writing Prompts: Ideas for Blogs, Scripts, Stories and More, 500 Writing Prompts for Kids: First Grade through Fifth Grade, Sharpening the Pencil: Essays on Writing, Motivation, and Enjoying your Life, and Writer on the Side: How to Write Your Book Around Your 9 to 5 Job), several plays (Something from Nothing and Chekhov Kegstand: A Dorm Room Dramedy in Two Acts) and he was the head writer for an un-produced Web series (Covenant Coffee). His writing and motivation website Build Creative Writing Ideas has had over 100,000 visitors since it was founded in December 2008. He lives in Chicago, Illinois.
    Follow Bryan on Twitter @buildcwideas.

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  2. Thanks for the great post and giveaway!!

    danaan at gmx dot at

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  3. Sounds great..

    thanks for the giveaway!!!

    vidishamun@gmail.com

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  4. Great interview! Nicely done as always!

    Sounds like a wonderful book! I really liked his statement about friends, the tried and true ones not the fair weather ones and learning the value of our friendships. They're so important and value every friend I have both near and far :o]

    I also like how he described giving back to the community. Most of the time I haven't seen that in my area. We're not rich by any means but my husband will often see a single mother or older couple on a fixed income and either put in an electrical service for them or remove a tree that's dangerous for free. Again, you know we're not 'millionaires or even rich' but I think everyone can learn by giving back to the community or people in general in some small way even if it's by donating time for the needy, etc...

    Very good interview as I said before and Mr. Cohen sounds like someone who has some wonderful ideas on how to achieve inner success, which to me is as important, if not more important than achieving financial success.

    Kristi

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  5. What a great Interview! an awesome giveaway!

    email: fallendream03 AT gmail DOT com

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  6. I think when you give to anyone selflessly, you get it back. I've always found when I see someone on the road or in a parking lot that needs help and I just help them without thinking, that something good happens to me usually soon after. But my motivation was because the person needed help.

    And it's also true to surround yourself with positive people that believe you can do it. My husband and two sons believe I can write a novel for publication. My other family thinks it's a pipe dream. None of them have ever read anything I've written. But being away from the family that doesn't believe in me has helped me to try to become a writer.

    Now to get those biographies...:)

    Heather

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  7. Hello Heather - I received the Irresistibly Sweet Blog Award yesterday and you are receiving it from today. To collect it and see what need to do, stop by wordsinsync.blogspot.com.

    This is a fab interview and I agree - selfless behaviour is more rewarding in the end. Have a fabulous day - Shah. X

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  8. Aw, thanks everybody for the heartfelt comments. Have an awesome rest of the week :).

    - Bryan

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  9. I really appreciated hearing his amazing and honest take on life. What a true and just outlook on life. Fabulous post :)

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